What I should be looking for.

I have been told many times to look to God and he will provide me with a husband when he feels it is time for me to have one. I have yet to listen to this advice. I have decided today that I am going to start praying about it and delete all the dating profiles and what not and just dig into God and what he has to offer and get my life together before I bring another person into it. God will bless me if I look to him and when he thinks it's my time.